Is it important for your wife to be a virgin

Started by whatsername , July 25, I've been wondering this. I have some reasons, but why is it that to some of you non-virginity is a deal breaker? Virginity is important to me because it shows that she is intelligent and thoughtful enough to understand that sex is important, and that she would save herself for one person, the person that means the most to her. It show that she, like me has been thinking about her future spouse and cares about them even though she doesn't know them yet. There is way more to it than these points, but these are some reasons why virginity is important to me.

Running a business in Bangalore? How does a mere piece of tissue makes a woman pure or otherwise? This post questions! I write fifty posts about love and relationships and no one bats an eye. Why is this only this being blown out of proportion? Is a really thin tissue really worth so much discussion? Why should what someone does in their own time become a subject of tea-time gossip or a weapon of mass-future-blackmail I know what you did last summer.

The day my husband confessed his sexual history to me, I sat quietly as he told me the truth. Virginity has been at the forefront of the purity conversation for decades. When my husband and I married, I was a virgin — and he was not. God offers redemption for all sexual sin. But where God offers hope, Satan counters with doubt.

Growing up in a Christian home, I was raised to view my virginity as almost as important as my salvation. I took those warnings to heart. It's difficult to understand if you didn't grow up in the church, but the focus on purity before marriage is so pervasive in many Christian circles that I didn't even question it. Of course I would wait until marriage. How could I think of doing anything else?